A Certain large supermarket

giving a pile of goodies in choice selection of unwanted or excessive stock to charity staff. I had the benefits of that with the grab the handfuls passed to a more selective daughter. You or your Mum could use this scenarios. The silent knowing how this can become obsessive out of moderation  ....

The think you need stock lulling and lurking in most homes ...

 I am still using some of the benefits that superstores give rather landfill and good food waste ... today is one such way of continuing the productive use ... 

The Stanford Prison experiment

a film I decided to watch portraying the 1970s psychology study conducted by Professor Zimbardo 

I fell asleep 

Mind you, I had just finished a trying few hours on a ward ... One is compliant in accepting all manners of personalities... I do not need to see such studies. I have had a very personal eye opener on the mannerisms, behavioural patterns, the inadvertent mishaps. The plain cold harassment for nigh on two years with only backing off on a death, from the angle of a non professional... And then it was business as usual for some, that, that the Grenfell Tower ex residents are dealing with right now ... 

A story emerging from one resident of the tower, with at least three main ways in the concept I reacted too, in the first rumblings weeks of the tragedy. Astounding and poignant. 

My obs serving a lot of muted disgust to witnessing the amazing depths my hubby's despair went  ... to the laughter of obscene hilarity The ironies often relayed to those who sometimes listened in the following lapses so fatal of judgement on a family .... Everything in humanity and common courteous decency went out of our existence ... 

One unfortunately of many in this sometime inadvertant and deliberate barbaric world.